Custody exchange days can be challenging, especially in the beginning. This is because co-parents who may still be healing from the divorce have to meet. Besides, exchanging a child can lead to sadness and guilt in the parent dropping them off. Children also experience different emotions during transitions between the two households. Consequently, it’s not uncommon for misunderstandings to occur.
Thorough planning can help co-parents have smooth exchange days despite being emotionally charged. You can avoid elements that can trigger conflicts.
Here are three tips to consider employing during custody exchange days:
1. Choose a regular time for the exchange
You and your co-parent should choose a regular exchange time. This way, each party will know when to start preparing the child to avoid delays. Having a regular time can also ease things for your child. If they don’t know what time they will be leaving, they can spend the whole day confused and possibly anxious.
You should always be on time on exchange days. If you realize you will be late, inform the other parent as soon as you can.
2. Choose an exchange location
Agree on an exchange location beforehand to avoid finding a new meetup spot every exchange day. You can agree to drop off and pick up your child at each other’s houses or a neutral public place. On exchange days that fall on school days, one parent can drop off the child at school, and the other picks them up.
3. Pack everything
It’s helpful for co-parents to have a checklist of what their child needs to ensure they are packed on exchange days. These include personal items, school supplies, special items like a blanket, medication and so on.
You can have smooth exchange days when you are well-prepared. If your co-parent is making things difficult for you, call Quinn Law Firm at 814-833-2222 to protect your parental rights.
